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Just for Professionals - Working with a Doula

How to maximize the benefits of working with a doula, and minimize potential problems

Identify your own boundaries

You have the right to set limits in your working life. Under what circumstances will you work with a doula? What do you see as your role with your clients? How comfortable are you if your client seeks a doula's support, or makes choices that are not what you would recommend?

 

Communicate

Discuss your views and requirements candidly with your client and with the doulas you work with. Open communication helps everyone have a clear sense of what to expect from others, and helps everyone avoid making assumptions that can complicate things later on. Listen to the ideas your client or the doula raises and decide whether they fit in your comfort zone or if you're ready to push your own boundaries a little on any particular issue. If you have a problem with something the doula is doing, or with the effect it is having on your relationship with your client, address it directly, right away.

 

Build a professional relationship

Meet briefly with a doula before she attends a birth with you for the first time, or speak on the phone. Set the tone for your relationship, and open the avenues for communication.

 

Make the most of the benefits

Doulas benefit medical professionals by helping to reassure women and their partners, by reducing time spent covering basics and on unskilled support, and by referring women to your practice or facility. Keep in mind that the time spent building a relationship with a doula can be more than compensated by the time and effort her work with your client will save you.

 

Remember not all doulas are the same

If you have had a negative experience working with a doula, read our page on solving common problems.

 

Do your part to ensure high professional standards among the doulas you work with

Just as in any profession, there will be a range of training backgrounds, professional proficiency, and practice of professional ethics. See our page on what medical professionals can do to foster professional standards.

 

How a Doula helped me!

 
"I chose to have a doula for the birth of my second baby and I could not begin to describe what a  great decision it was. I loved my doctor and the nurses were all fantastic. But what made the experience really amazing was the way everyone worked together as a team.
 
My doula came to the house when I was in early labor and reminded me to stay relaxed and calm, when I was so excited the baby would finally be arriving. Once we got to the hospital the doula and the nurses worked together like they had been doing it forever. The nurses took wonderful  care of me, always respectful and listening to what i wanted. The doula made sure I was always comfortable, reminding my husband to take breaks when he needed to, and focused on how we both were feeling.
 
At the end when my doctor came in, it just kept getting better. The doctor did everything we wanted right down to nobody telling us the sex of our baby until we discovered it for ourselves. Once everyone had left us alone with the baby, our doula came back in and made sure we were comfortable and answered all our questions. She continued to see us several times after we returned home until I felt more confident about caring for two young children.
 
I would do it all again tomorrow and would not change a thing!" - Kelli, Florida
 
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